Posts by Country Girl

  • still angry
    27

    How many raised as a JW have a hard time remembering holidays?

    by still angry in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i'm asking this because i found myself in an bad spot monday night.

    my daughter is almost three and goes to a little preschool thing each day.

    they were to have a valentine's day party on tuesday, for which i was to bring fruit, etc.

    1. Mulan
    2. still angry
    3. luna2
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Moi.

    Some years, I seem to do better than others! I've been out over twenty, and still have a hard time remembering birthdays. The major holidays like Xmas and Turkey Day are not so bad.. but people's birthdays, oh my gawd. Some years I remember all familial birthdays, and forget everyone else's .. but at least if I remember in the week following I always say "sorry" and send a belated card. Thank God for belation.. heheh.

    CG

  • Country Girl

    Omaha....

    by Country Girl in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    will be coming into omaha on the 9th around noon.

    would be interested in meeting up with any x's.. if there are any in this town.

    please let me know if you'd like to hook up.. send emails here, will get on here tonight...

  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Will be coming into Omaha on the 9th around noon. would be interested in meeting up with any X's.. if there are any in this town. Please let me know if you'd like to hook up.. send emails here, will get on here tonight...

    CG

  • MsMcDucket
    41

    What has hurt you the most for being a JW?

    by MsMcDucket in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    .

    or what do you regret most about being a jw?.

    for me it's being alienated by my twin daughters.

    1. bonnzo
    2. HiddenQuestioner
    3. just2sheep
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    The whole goddamned ball of wax. I haven't been one for 20 or more years, and it still infiltrates my waking life every chance it gets.

  • albertjw
    51

    how to behave in judical committee? pls help

    by albertjw in
    1. watchtower
    2. beliefs

    i am new here, excuse my english.

    it seems that some of you are serving or have been serving as elders and have judical committee experience (stillajwexelder for example).

    i want to know how i must behave in jc meeting to avoid disfellowshipping.

    1. diamondblue1974
    2. Cordelia
    3. James Free
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    There is no one that comes between you and the one that died for your sins. No one else can know your heart, or judge your repentance, except for God. That is a very personal thing. No institution, body of elders, or single person, can judge your repentance, or require you to attend a meeting of men, themselves sinners, to judge your repentance, your value to God, or whether you will live on in the new world order. For, the time you are being shunned by these equally value-less men in the eyes of God, you are not part of the body of Christ, and you are already dead and therefore not worth anything in God's eyes. Armagheddon could come at this time and you could be permanently dead, in their version of reality, because they *say so*.

    Who are you, a mere human, or any *other* mere human, to stand in the place of GOD to judge your worthiness for existence on this Earth? I think they, and you, are presuming alot. Who died and made THEM God? Nobody. But *somebody* died, and it was Jesus, and he made it so you can be ASSURED of living on in whatever life he will make for you, if you accept him as your Christ.

    JW's are so presumptuous as to configure their little human lives, not so much more than ants ona pile of dirt, and presume to act in the place of the Almighty: directing everyone's lives, making them feel guilty for not putting in enough time, not doing enough in the congregation, and forming these little tiny ant-like conferences to decide whether to put the worker ant out and make him feel like crap, when the BIG GUY says that we are all saved by Grace, and that our repentance is through prayer and with HIM.

    If you'd like to stay in the "Christian" congregation, well then, that's totally up to you. I would advise that you take responsibility for your actions, but I'd also think you'd like to act in the name of honor and not reveal details, which is undignified, disrespectful and downright invasive to your accompaniment. Say you will accept punishment for YOUR actions, but you are not ratting out the lady, who is responsible for her OWN part in the sins.

    I know it does't work like that, but please be an honorable man and just take responsibility for your own part, and not rat out other people. There's nothing worse than a tattle tale.

    CG

  • Nellie
    21

    I can't believe I told somebody

    by Nellie in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i had a chat with an old jw friend ... although i always knew that she was cool.

    anyway, i told her to check out this site and i told her about franz' book and now she's checking us out.

    welcome her friends ... she's "mydiscount"

    1. ferret
    2. deeskis
    3. Es
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Welcome My Discount. Are you related to the Dollar General?

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  • Mulan
    135

    My Dad died this evening

    by Mulan in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i thought i would let you know that my dad, passed away a little while ago, tonight, january 23. they called me at 6pm to tell me.

    he had been failing rapidly for the past month, and had completely lost his hearing and was totally blind.

    the dementia was extreme too, and he still knew me on thursday, but didn't wake up to know me in the following days.

    1. Kaput
    2. BLISSISIGNORANCE
    3. Frannie Banannie
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Mulan:

    I am sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. That must be a hard thing to deal with. I guess I just want to say I am sorry and I hope that the good memories of your Dad will help sustain you through this difficult time.

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  • Country Girl
    30

    If you could cheat on your mate...

    by Country Girl in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    and guaranteed not get caught.. would you?.

    if it were possible that you could cheat on your mate, or significant other, and not get caught, would you do it?

    i've often asked myself that, and asked my husband, too.

    1. Country Girl
    2. Legolas
    3. Country Girl
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Smooooooooooooooooch!

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  • Country Girl
    30

    If you could cheat on your mate...

    by Country Girl in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    and guaranteed not get caught.. would you?.

    if it were possible that you could cheat on your mate, or significant other, and not get caught, would you do it?

    i've often asked myself that, and asked my husband, too.

    1. Country Girl
    2. Legolas
    3. Country Girl
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Those were some awesome answers everyone! It seems that the MAJORITY would not cheat on their mate, even if they wouldn't be found out, because of what they THEMSELVES think about themselves. It's not what *they* know, it's what we know about ourselves that counts. I find that wonderfully refreshing as opposed to what the JW's think of us heathens that, as soon as we are DF'd or DA ourselves, turn into. Thanks for answering my question honestly and with alot of courage and candor. You guys are great. As far as I can tell...

    You guys are *sooooo* worth it!

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  • truth about the last days
    38

    Am I a JW or not? Year of Baptisim and year of falling away.

    by truth about the last days in
    1. watchtower
    2. beliefs

    i put this page on just to know how many jws there are on this site.

    i am sure that we all will be intrested to know as to who stands where.

    i am only requesting if we are a jw or not, the year we got baptized and the year that we decided to leave.

    1. TallTexan
    2. funkyderek
    3. jah1914
  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    You ask too many questions. You are asking how many Witnesses are here? Are you going to try to find out who they are and turn them in? Why would you ask those questions?

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